I currently have some blog posts in writing however they just aren't ready yet however this one for my 80th post just seemed the right time to write this. I am one of these army partners, I don't think anyone should just be defined as an army spouse just because their married because some people don't choose to get married or they don't have the money too. So I class a girlfriend, fiance, or wife/husband as a spouse that's my choice and my personal opinion so don't hate me for this haha. ENJOY!
To the spouse that doesn't always rave about their soldier...
To the spouse that doesn't always wanna be an amazing chef...
To the spouse that doesn't always clean the house spotless...
To the spouse that isn't classed as a brilliant housewife...
To the spouse that isn't baking yummy treats and worshipping their soldier...
To the spouse that got married young...
To the spouse that got married old...
To the spouse that refuses to give up her education to live of her military partners wage...
To the spouse that doesn't need to talk 'smack' because it's the military spouse way of life...
To the spouse that leave rank out of conversation...
To the spouse that does cook,clean and act like a domestic god/goddess...
To the spouse with a million kids...
To the spouse that is childfree...
To the spouse that has lost a child with a soldier by their side...
To the spouse who dated their soldier for 15 years before they got married...
To the spouse that dated for 2 years before getting married...
To the spouse that may not agree with the military rules sometimes...
To the spouse who is a dude...
To the spouse who is a lady...
To the spouse who doesn't hate on other spouses...
To the spouse who defends their soldier...
KEEP DOING WHAT YOU ARE DOING.
I noticed that a lot of military spouses from my area have a different attitude to the others, we couldn't care less what age we are when we get married or if we can cook an amazing dinner or just a standard dinner. However, our spouses appreciate everything we do because they know that like all the others we deal with constant judgment and speculation. So maybe we get married young then time is on our side and we have the rest of our lives to share it together. So we got married age 30 we chose the right time and spent enough time together know we wanted to do this as mature adults. So maybe we only do a basic tidy around the house but the week later we do a head to toe full house clean doesn't make us lazy because maybe we have a job or a house full of kids. So maybe we don't have a house full of kids maybe we lost a child and are waiting for the right time when they aren't deployed or in the field so they can meet their first child with us. Maybe we got married after 2 years maybe at that time we had the money to do so and we wanted to be married before we had kids, or maybe we didn't get married for 10 years after we met because we had a kid and couldn't afford it. Whatever a military spouses chooses to do is their choice because things aren't that easy we sometimes have to make decisions on our own for both of our futures. To the spouses keeping their business to themselves and defending their spouses GOOD ON YOU because I'm right up that street, people talk far too much waffle these days for you to care about every single thing said about them
Well that is all my lovelies for this post, I just wanted to let people know whatever choice you make for your future with your partner is your choice never someone else's. I salute all of you for doing your own thing and not being a typical stereotype.
All my love,
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